I follow
this blog.
I love this idea.
Instead of making resolution after resolution this year my goal is to choose one word or phrase that I can focus on in 2010. She suggests putting the word or phrase somewhere you will see it each day in your house, car, anywhere you need reminding.
Art and I had a "heart to heart" talk not to long ago. It's one of those 2 to 3 hour talks that afterwards you feel cleansed and closer to your mate. It had been awhile since we had one. It mostly revolved around the past year. 2009 was a hard year for us for so many reasons. At certain points we both felt like we were ready to throw the
towel in. Personally I wanted to crawl in a hole and disappear for awhile. In the end we both agreed with all the struggles we ended up feeling Joy-less. We could trace when and how it started, how it affected us physically, emotionally, most importantly how it affected our family. We saw it's
{bad} side effects being acted out in our girls. They learned it from us and it hurt to know we had lost sight of pure self-less Joy and in turn, they had too.
So for 2010 I will seek self-less Joy.
Joy in my family.
Joy in my attitude.
Joy in my marriage.
Joy in my church.
Joy in my relationship with God.
Joy in every aspect of my life.
With that JOY I want to be self-less.
I will give myself away in Joy.
I won't forget my own needs.
{After all I need those late night trips to Panera's with the girls.}
I need to be Joyful in who I am.
No more long lists of things I wished I had done. One simple phrase for 2010.